Appreciation is something that you do not tend to do or if you do then you sometimes appreciate people who do not deserve to. It even occurred or occurs to me that I do this error, after all I am a normal human being with flaws that I am trying to overcome every single time. Also I tend to appreciate things more than people.
It may sound that I am heartless at times but I am changing gradually with the passing time and I know that I am starting to appreciate people around me since some years. I think to think with my head instead of my heart because of some incidents that happened to me and ever since I was this robot who didn't know that when somebody does or says something nice to you, you should smile and at least say a thank you to show some appreciation.
Noticing that there are people who do not show a sign of appreciation about even their parents, makes me so sad or even the maid who works at their place. It is one of the worst things that you will ever do to a human being who breathes and has the same feelings and emotions like you. Even the newspaper vendor or the road side ice cream or junk food seller needs to know that you are liking their service by a simple smile because they get courage by those actions that you do towards them.
When it comes to friends, it is another level of showing your appreciation or disapproval but try to be gentle because we all make mistakes here and there. You never know if you will see those people tomorrow so make the best of today to say 'I like how you check on me' 'I appreciate your concern' 'You are a wonderful person when it comes to consoling' or any similar phrase which express your thankfulness.
I never want to let a person go away because I didn't appreciate him or her enough. It is then when you realize the utmost importance of the role of that being who was in your life. So try to appreciate even a message or a short call from your parents, friends, lover, maid, sweeper or any human being who is in your surroundings. Even if you have to hug them, do so.
It may sound that I am heartless at times but I am changing gradually with the passing time and I know that I am starting to appreciate people around me since some years. I think to think with my head instead of my heart because of some incidents that happened to me and ever since I was this robot who didn't know that when somebody does or says something nice to you, you should smile and at least say a thank you to show some appreciation.
Noticing that there are people who do not show a sign of appreciation about even their parents, makes me so sad or even the maid who works at their place. It is one of the worst things that you will ever do to a human being who breathes and has the same feelings and emotions like you. Even the newspaper vendor or the road side ice cream or junk food seller needs to know that you are liking their service by a simple smile because they get courage by those actions that you do towards them.
When it comes to friends, it is another level of showing your appreciation or disapproval but try to be gentle because we all make mistakes here and there. You never know if you will see those people tomorrow so make the best of today to say 'I like how you check on me' 'I appreciate your concern' 'You are a wonderful person when it comes to consoling' or any similar phrase which express your thankfulness.
I never want to let a person go away because I didn't appreciate him or her enough. It is then when you realize the utmost importance of the role of that being who was in your life. So try to appreciate even a message or a short call from your parents, friends, lover, maid, sweeper or any human being who is in your surroundings. Even if you have to hug them, do so.
We need more people to think the way you do, Nasra.
ReplyDeleteMostly, people have programmed themselves to overlook the good and highlight the bad in others. Which is sad.
Thank you for being so sweet, Yusra! We sure do need people who find the good in others.
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